Nothing is hidden that will not be revealed, and nothing is secret that will not be made known. So then whatever you have said in the dark will be heard in the light, and what you have whispered in private rooms will be proclaimed from the housetops. Luke 12:2-3 You always have a witness to your life. If you live alone, it's "just" the Spirit of God. When you live with a spouse or roommate, you have someone that can certainly recall a lot of your mistakes, hopefully your good moments too! When you have children, young or grown, you have the greatest responsibility to live honorably and as a good example. The only reason that God brings out the bad in our lives is so we can deal with it and be filled with His goodness. He wants the best for us and He also knows that trials will bring out our best and worst- The people around you are always a witness to your public life. And if you were to invite someone to church or to invest time in learning about God, they would have to want what you have to offer. Draw near to God, have Him show you what needs to be brought to the light, so you can be free and share your freedom in Christ with others.